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Seth Rolbein's avatar

Thanks so much for these substantive, thoughtful comments. Having good writers respond to writing is always most heartening, most appreciated, as are supportive comments from people willing to take the time to send a quick note about a piece of work that was difficult to come to terms with, not easy to realize. I'm sure more people will weigh in, look forward to them as well. Best all around, s

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Ellen Raquel LeBow's avatar

Excellent, stark observations.

Whatever his deeper motivations to suicide, they pale next to the fact of HOW Aaron chose to do it: He could've chosen the privacy of his bedroom. Instead he chose to destroy his life publicly, painfully, as a galling message and moral cry, something we all COULD use to question ourselves on many levels rather than getting entangled in whether he was a martyr or a madman. Both? Neither? Those who claim he did it for a twisted need to be famous, remember others like him have chosen to unleash assault weapons at schools to do that.

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